warmstars:

homophobic things bi/pan ppl need to stop doing
– implying that gay men and lesbians are closed-minded, creepy or predatory for only liking one gender
– acting as if being bi/pan is inherently more radical & liberated than being gay
– getting angry with gay people for not always prioritising cis m/f relationships in their activism
– demonising gay people and treating them like oppressors when they address the homophobia/lesbophobia within the lgbt community
– ‘’‘monosexual’’’ ‘’‘monosexism’’’
– pretending that gay people + lesbians are privileged for their hypervisibility and have the power to systematically oppress others on the basis of sexuality

biphobic things gay ppl need to stop doing
– perpetuating the lie that bi people are more likely to cheat on them (and refusing to date/associate with them because of this)
– perpetuating the lie that bi people “always end up in m/f relationships”
– pretending that bi people are no longer hurt by homophobia or biphobia the moment they enter a m/f relationship 
– claiming that bisexuality/pansexuality isn’t real or insinuating that identifying as bi is always a bridge to identifying as gay/straight
– ‘’bihet’’ ‘’straight-passing privilege’’
– pretending that bi + pan people are privileged and have the power to systematically oppress others on the basis of sexuality