Incremental change favors the privileged. Time is quite literally a luxury many oppressed and marginalized groups cannot afford. Centrism and โpragmatic incrementalismโ are crappy strategies for fighting Republicans. Iโm here for the fierce urgency of NOW, not for lukewarm moderates who care more about preserving order than they care about justice.
Always reblog because this is the best way Iโve ever seen it put.
This weekend, activists in Uganda – a country where homosexuality is punishable by death – held their first Pride.ย
This is the epitome of courage. I have no other words.ย
this is making me tear up holy shit
This makes me soo fucking proud most of us in places like Nigeria and Uganda especially northern Nigeria, the punishment by law is getting stoned to death if you show any signs of being gay. This makes me sad that Me and thousands of others canโt be themselves but still, this is so FUCKING beautiful I am proud of the people of my African continent!
I just want to make it clear that the photo was taken, and the first Ugandan Pride was held, in 2012. Five years later theyโre still celebrating Pride. Despite the fact that they face police raids and arrests, theyโve made this an annual event.ย
This Pride was just one year after a prominent LGBT rights activist was murderedย in Uganda. David Kato also worked at my Universityย in the UK as an academic at the Centre for Applied Human Rights. He was murdered after a local newspaper published his face and address. Itโs a horrible situation, and he was a great person who should be remembered.ย
Arthur, have you ever been in love?โ
It was midnight. The blinds didnโt shut properly. Whenever a car drove past, its headlights would momentarily slip across our faces as we laid on the floor.
Arthur slipped his arm across his eyes and grunted as he stretched his legs. โWhatโs the time?โ
โLate,โ I replied, โHave you ever been in love?โ
My mouth still tasted of coke and popcorn. The televisionย was playing the DVD menu intro again and again and again, but I didnโt really mind. It gave me an excuse to get up and slowly turn off the screen while peeking a glance at Arthur.
He didnโt move. His arm rested perfectly across his face so that I couldnโt read his emotions when his muffled reply came, โDonโt know.โ
โHow canโt you know?โ
โWell, have you?โ
I turned off the screen and kicked an empty can across the floor. Droplets of soda sprayed through the air. I wiped the floor clean with my foot. โYeah, I think. I kind of have.โ
โYeah? Whatโs it like?โ
I shrugged. โPainful, mostly.โ
โAh, unrequited,โ Arthur sighed and smiled. He moved his arm down and propped himself up on his elbows. โHow romantic. Tell me more.โ
โWell, itโs like a feeling, yeah?โ
โYes, love is a feeling,โ he mocked.
I grimaced. โRight, and itโs like, I donโt know. Should I act on it? Should I let it be? What if I hurt someone?โ
โHow can love hurt someone?โ he asked and cocked his head.
A car drove past. The light slipped across his face. His green eyes, curious, his tense lips, hesitant. His fingers curled up to meet his palms. His oversized shirt dipped to his collarbones.
โIt could change things. Change can be painful,โ I said, my tongue dry. I fiddled with the strap in my shorts and looked down. โY’know, sometimes we change and we realise that itโs not all we ever wanted.โ
โFor you?โ
โFor you,โ I replied and bit my inner cheek.
I knew he was watching me. Then I heard him get up. The floor creaked. His hand touched mine, just barely, but it made me shudder. I didnโt dare to look him in the eyes.
โYouโve never been good with words,โ he said, and I nodded. โNo, Iโve never been in love.โ
I felt my heart sink. โOh.โ
โThatโs assuming itโs past me. I have never been in love. I always am.โ
I looked up. Another car drove past, and his lips were no longer tense, but relaxed as he smiled. I closed my fingers around his, and he pulled back and stretched, casually, as he started walking back towards the window. โBut, you know, if you have only ever been in love-โ
โAm,โ I stuttered, โI am in love.โ
He looked over his shoulder at me and smiled. โThen come show me.